This PSA is actually for the benefit of a friend, not me, although there are times it very well could be for me too. If someone you are close to or care about seems negative, either lately or always, telling them "you are so negative" will honestly, absolutely , help nothing at all. If you really do care or are concerned about how they are feeling, say so. Take the time to say more than the obvious - most likely this person already knows they are negative as they probably feel like crap. Ask your friend if they are doing okay , or if something is bothering them, or if they need anything. Trust me, that will be so much more meaningful and helpful than simply telling them that they are negative. One of the surest ways to make someone who is already feeling negative feel even worse is to point out their negativity.
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