Just as I clicked "post" on my previous post, I receive an email from Sissy. Sissy is the mother of 5 who ran Sunmart with me and who was on the cover of Inside Texas Running with me. She is doing IMAZ as her first IM in two weeks with our group. I want to be like her when I grow up - I truly do.
The email Sissy wrote included an essay written by her daughter. Reading it I realize once again my life just isn't that bad.
I hope she doesn't mind me posting it, because it is definitely worth of being shared:
A Christmas Not Taken for Granted
Christmas Day of the year 2006, was approaching, and the excitement that always lingers prior to December 25, was surging through my every vein. We had already picked out a towering Christmas tree that filled the house with that pine tree scent commonly associated with the holiday. In my ideal world, I would wake up to the gifts neatly surrounding the base of the elaborately ornamented branches above them. My entire family would then gather around, taking turns demolishing the wrapping paper and revealing the long-awaited gifts that came to cause that special gleam of happiness in the eyes of all four of my brothers as well as my parents and myself. After all, this was how it had always taken place in past years. However, this year would come to be one I would never forget.
Right before Christmas break come the much-dreaded first semester finals. However, we all know we must survive them in order to reach the prized vacation. This time of re-gathering all of the knowledge thrown at us during the entire first eighteen weeks of school is one of stress, tears, and migraines. So, when my younger brother, Parker, at the age of fourteen began complaining of severe migraines about this time of year, my parents and I thought nothing of it except for the typical “final stress” headache. Parker, on the other hand, begged to differ. Due to his persistence, my mother eventually scheduled an appointment for a CAT scan when three Excedrin Migraine pills weren’t doing the trick. The day of the CAT scan, I was at home, sleeping in, while my mom went through just about the most horrifying moment of her life. While the CAT scan was being read, the worst words a mother could hear came from the doctor’s mouth as he peered his head around the edge of the door of the reading room. “Mom, could we talk to you for a second?” Her heart dropped with every word infected by the doctor’s worried voice. The next words came as her heart hit the floor. “We found a mass in your son’s brain.” No one could truly imagine how she felt at this moment.
I finally awoke from my slumber, oblivious to the events taking place in the medical center downtown. I called my mom to rid me of my boredom, hoping she could pick me up and get me out of the house or something. The one somber “hello” was all I heard. “What’s wrong,” I inquired. “Nothing,” she replied, “they just need to do some more tests to figure out as to why he’s having headaches.” I knew this wasn’t the case, however, as she almost nearly burst into tears right there on the phone. If she wouldn’t tell me what was wrong, I knew my dad would. I called him on his cell phone, and all he told me was that he was heading to Texas Children’s at that moment, where Parker had gotten his CAT scan. I begged to go with him, and he eventually agreed. The moment I stepped foot into his large Chevy truck, I could tell something was seriously wrong. All of the sudden, my dad burst into tears. Now, one must understand that in all of my sixteen years, at this point, I had never, in my entire life, seen my father cry. He eventually was able to choke out the words, “Parker has a brain tumor.” I stared blankly out the window at the passing trees, not even able to cry at first. The shock had taken away my ability to have any emotion. Then, all at once, my emotions returned as tears began streaming down my face as I kept my eyes concentrated on my outside surroundings, hoping they would engulf me and remove me from my current situation. However, I knew this was reality, and what I had just heard, I would have to accept.
My dad and I finally arrived at Texas Children’s Hospital where we raced down a long, sterile hallway to an end room where we found Parker, lounging in the hospital bed, watching his favorite TV show. The minute we walked in, my thoughts began piling up only to be shortly interrupted by a knock on the door. The man introduced himself as Dr. Dauser, the head of pediatric neurosurgery at Texas Children’s Hospital. He then brought my mother, my father, and me into a room with a large computer displaying an image of my brother’s brain. On the right side of his brain was a large, orange-sized mass pushing over and curving the center-line of his brain into the left hemisphere. My jaw nearly dropped. This mass could be the thing that ends up taking my brother from me. We re-entered the room where Parker remained lying, acting as brave as ever, with more composure than I would ever be able to retain. I looked at him as if I had never seen him before. I noticed every facial feature, every mannerism, every personality trait emitted through the air about him. I then realized, that all of this, all I had taken for granted for the fourteen years I had known him, could be gone at any second. The surgery the following morning could go wrong; the tumor could be malignant. A million thoughts were racing through my head. If I were noticing all of these things about him in the five minutes I had been contemplating, I could only imagine what I was supposed to notice after fourteen years. However, I always thought he would be there for me. I never took the time to notice these things, because I never had the fear of them being taken away from me. Of all the things I took for granted, I took my closest sibling, my younger brother, for granted the most.
The next few days, including the surgery and the recovery, were all a blur. Friends and family were extremely supportive, as even my friends came to visit my little brother in the hospital, and bring him his favorite foods and magazines and anything to make him feel more comfortable. In all of his best efforts, Dr. Dauser was even able to release Parker from the hospital Christmas morning. As many pain-killers as he was on, and in spite of the incision running across his entire, now bald, head, Parker maintained a smile on his face and that gleam in his eye that he had every Christmas morning since I can remember. Due to this situation, I have now learned to cherish that gleam and every other aspect which I have taken for granted, realizing that anything could be gone at any moment.
The email Sissy wrote included an essay written by her daughter. Reading it I realize once again my life just isn't that bad.
I hope she doesn't mind me posting it, because it is definitely worth of being shared:
A Christmas Not Taken for Granted
Christmas Day of the year 2006, was approaching, and the excitement that always lingers prior to December 25, was surging through my every vein. We had already picked out a towering Christmas tree that filled the house with that pine tree scent commonly associated with the holiday. In my ideal world, I would wake up to the gifts neatly surrounding the base of the elaborately ornamented branches above them. My entire family would then gather around, taking turns demolishing the wrapping paper and revealing the long-awaited gifts that came to cause that special gleam of happiness in the eyes of all four of my brothers as well as my parents and myself. After all, this was how it had always taken place in past years. However, this year would come to be one I would never forget.
Right before Christmas break come the much-dreaded first semester finals. However, we all know we must survive them in order to reach the prized vacation. This time of re-gathering all of the knowledge thrown at us during the entire first eighteen weeks of school is one of stress, tears, and migraines. So, when my younger brother, Parker, at the age of fourteen began complaining of severe migraines about this time of year, my parents and I thought nothing of it except for the typical “final stress” headache. Parker, on the other hand, begged to differ. Due to his persistence, my mother eventually scheduled an appointment for a CAT scan when three Excedrin Migraine pills weren’t doing the trick. The day of the CAT scan, I was at home, sleeping in, while my mom went through just about the most horrifying moment of her life. While the CAT scan was being read, the worst words a mother could hear came from the doctor’s mouth as he peered his head around the edge of the door of the reading room. “Mom, could we talk to you for a second?” Her heart dropped with every word infected by the doctor’s worried voice. The next words came as her heart hit the floor. “We found a mass in your son’s brain.” No one could truly imagine how she felt at this moment.
I finally awoke from my slumber, oblivious to the events taking place in the medical center downtown. I called my mom to rid me of my boredom, hoping she could pick me up and get me out of the house or something. The one somber “hello” was all I heard. “What’s wrong,” I inquired. “Nothing,” she replied, “they just need to do some more tests to figure out as to why he’s having headaches.” I knew this wasn’t the case, however, as she almost nearly burst into tears right there on the phone. If she wouldn’t tell me what was wrong, I knew my dad would. I called him on his cell phone, and all he told me was that he was heading to Texas Children’s at that moment, where Parker had gotten his CAT scan. I begged to go with him, and he eventually agreed. The moment I stepped foot into his large Chevy truck, I could tell something was seriously wrong. All of the sudden, my dad burst into tears. Now, one must understand that in all of my sixteen years, at this point, I had never, in my entire life, seen my father cry. He eventually was able to choke out the words, “Parker has a brain tumor.” I stared blankly out the window at the passing trees, not even able to cry at first. The shock had taken away my ability to have any emotion. Then, all at once, my emotions returned as tears began streaming down my face as I kept my eyes concentrated on my outside surroundings, hoping they would engulf me and remove me from my current situation. However, I knew this was reality, and what I had just heard, I would have to accept.
My dad and I finally arrived at Texas Children’s Hospital where we raced down a long, sterile hallway to an end room where we found Parker, lounging in the hospital bed, watching his favorite TV show. The minute we walked in, my thoughts began piling up only to be shortly interrupted by a knock on the door. The man introduced himself as Dr. Dauser, the head of pediatric neurosurgery at Texas Children’s Hospital. He then brought my mother, my father, and me into a room with a large computer displaying an image of my brother’s brain. On the right side of his brain was a large, orange-sized mass pushing over and curving the center-line of his brain into the left hemisphere. My jaw nearly dropped. This mass could be the thing that ends up taking my brother from me. We re-entered the room where Parker remained lying, acting as brave as ever, with more composure than I would ever be able to retain. I looked at him as if I had never seen him before. I noticed every facial feature, every mannerism, every personality trait emitted through the air about him. I then realized, that all of this, all I had taken for granted for the fourteen years I had known him, could be gone at any second. The surgery the following morning could go wrong; the tumor could be malignant. A million thoughts were racing through my head. If I were noticing all of these things about him in the five minutes I had been contemplating, I could only imagine what I was supposed to notice after fourteen years. However, I always thought he would be there for me. I never took the time to notice these things, because I never had the fear of them being taken away from me. Of all the things I took for granted, I took my closest sibling, my younger brother, for granted the most.
The next few days, including the surgery and the recovery, were all a blur. Friends and family were extremely supportive, as even my friends came to visit my little brother in the hospital, and bring him his favorite foods and magazines and anything to make him feel more comfortable. In all of his best efforts, Dr. Dauser was even able to release Parker from the hospital Christmas morning. As many pain-killers as he was on, and in spite of the incision running across his entire, now bald, head, Parker maintained a smile on his face and that gleam in his eye that he had every Christmas morning since I can remember. Due to this situation, I have now learned to cherish that gleam and every other aspect which I have taken for granted, realizing that anything could be gone at any moment.
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